How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend to Want You Back! Proven Ways to Win Him Back

i miss my ex boyfriend so muchYou want to know how to get your ex boyfriend to want you back. We all take things for granted in our lives. Sometimes we even take people for granted. Perhaps that was the case with your ex boyfriend. You didn’t fully realize how much the man meant to you until he wasn’t there anymore. A break up has a way of bringing incredible clarity to a relationship. If you now see that he’s the man you should be with, you have to act quickly. You can get him back if you understand what works. Letting your emotions take the reins on this is a mistake. You need a proven plan to regain his love.

Understanding how to get your ex boyfriend to want you back is very much about attracting him in the same way you did when you two first met. Remember back to those early days of your relationship. There were qualities in you that he just couldn’t resist. You were incredibly appealing to him back then and you need to show him that you’re still that same woman. Doing that may seem harder now since you two have gone through a break up, but it doesn’t have to be at all.

The first step you should be taking is learning how to play hard to get. You’re not going to make him adore you again if you’re throwing no contact with ex boyfriendyourself at his feet. He doesn’t want you doing that and he’s not going to find it appealing in the least. Instead of calling him constantly trying to get him to talk about your failed relationship and a second chance, go out with your friends. Do things for yourself and avoid him if you can. This will show him that you’re not a lovesick puppy dog chasing him around trying to regain his attention.

Make a short list of things that you’d like to improve about yourself. Don’t be super critical. Just choose a few things that you wish were different. Your goal now should be making those changes a reality. You’ll find that if you spend more time focusing on yourself, you won’t be constantly preoccupied with thoughts of him. To him that will feel like you’re over him and moving forward with your life. Once he senses that you’re future happiness doesn’t hinge on him, he’ll want you back again. It’s all about playing hard to get. It really works!

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4 Comments on How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend to Want You Back! Proven Ways to Win Him Back

  1. Barbra
    December 18, 2013 at 9:24 pm (11 months ago)

    Sorry, but you don’t. If you’re on the dumped end of a broken relationship, you’ll need patience and strategy above all else. Without these things, everything you do will be doomed to failure. So many women make desperate, hasty decisions just after a break up. They make rash moves without thinking – moves that only serve to push their man away – only to realize and regret it later on.

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  2. Adeline G. Sampson
    December 30, 2013 at 6:42 pm (11 months ago)

    You’ve got to choose – the mind can only handle one position at a time. That doesn’t mean you go around hurting people or being a cold, callous prick, but it does mean you don’t label things as “This is black, while this is white” when reality is more complicated than that – her boyfriend might be heartbroken if she strays with you, but she might be heartbroken if you ignore her and leave her trapped in a loveless relationship or one she’s come to resent. Which one are you right for helping, and which one are you wrong for harming?

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  3. Amado C. Mathis
    December 31, 2013 at 8:22 am (11 months ago)

    The following is a comment posted by a man who was married to an emotionally abusive woman with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) . His advice on how to heal from and get over an emotionally abusive relationship in order to prepare yourself for a new, healthy relationship is so excellent, that I’m posting it as its own blog.

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  4. Todd Turner
    January 19, 2014 at 11:10 am (10 months ago)

    The fact that he wanted to hold onto both of us and wouldn’t break up bothers me more then anything. If he had not cheated and I had just told him to “take a run and jump” as you like to say, I think I would feel much better. But the fact that I feel he has replaced me and I‘m still struggling with all the wreckage and baggage he left me with, seems so unfair. I know life isn’t fair but these men seem to be able to move on much easier then us. So how do I get over the feeling that this woman somehow won? Even though I know in my heart that he was cheating on her while he was cheating on me. I know that I suddenly became the other woman in my own relationship. How frickin weird is that?

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