Relationships are confusing things, aren’t they? One day you feel the warmth and unending devotion of your boyfriend’s love and affection. The next day he’s breaking up with you. Afterwards you’re left trying to deal with a whole range of emotions but in the middle of it, is the question of can you get your boyfriend to love you again. You absolutely can. There are steps to get your ex boyfriend back that you can take. Following this advice will open the doors for a second chance for the two of you.
Before we talk about the steps to get your ex boyfriend back, we need to touch on what you shouldn’t be doing in an effort to win back his love. Virtually every woman who has been in your position has made these same mistakes. The first is to call him. The umbrella of this is a bit wide reaching and includes things like emailing him, IMing him and even sending him a text message. If you’re doing this, put a stop to it now. Constantly trying to talk to your ex makes you look desperate and pathetic. You don’t want that.
Onto the steps to take your boyfriend back. Here they are in short form:
Cut off all contact with him. Just as I wrote above, you need to give up the notion of talking to him in an effort to win him back. Remove his number from your phone and delete his email address from your address book. He’s on your do-not-contact list for the next few weeks.
Spoil yourself. Throughout your relationship with your ex and since the break up you’ve likely been neglecting your own needs. As women we’re notorious for this when we’re with a man. We put him on a pedestal and do everything for him. You need to change that focus now. Worry about yourself for the next few weeks. Do things that you love doing. Pamper yourself. You need to feel better about yourself and this is a great way to do it.
Get out and have fun. Whoever said that you had to mourn the loss of your relationship endlessly? You don’t! You need to get out and start living again. Show your ex that you can live without him. No man wants to feel expendable in the life of the woman he cares for. I wouldn’t suggest dating again at this point, but you certainly should be hanging out with friends, including male friends.